Top 10 Dating Tips for Men

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For most people, dating and romance can be a pleasant and exciting part of life. However, if you’re new to the game or would just like to take your skills to the next level, the advice below will help you become more confident, charming, and date-worthy than ever before. Get ready to impress with these practical dating tips for men!

Dating Tip #1: Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff

The first mistake many guys make is that they take things too seriously way too fast. When you’re dating someone new, remember that you haven’t known each other long enough to really see who they are as a person and how they treat other people.

If there’s something about them that bugs you a little bit, remind yourself that it may not bother them as much as it bothers you, or at all. And if it does end up being a major red flag there’s no harm in ending things early before spending more time with someone who doesn’t get along with your friends and family.

Dating Tip #2: Compliment Her

Compliments are an easy way to make her feel good about herself. Make sure your compliment is sincere and focus on something outside of physical appearance, such as you’re very good at what you do or your smile is so genuine. Avoid making compliments about physical attributes you’d want to change like I love how tall you are, or I wish your hair was shorter.

If she has self-esteem issues, she’ll assume you see her that way too. By complimenting what she does rather than how she looks, you show her that not only are you interested in her but also that there’s something special about who she is and what she brings to a relationship.

Dating Tip #3: Stand Out From Other Guys

You don’t have to be an athlete or a celebrity, but you do need to know how to make yourself stand out from other guys. This can be done by being involved in your community, traveling, and learning another language. And that little something is likely going to come from someplace unexpected like playing an instrument or riding a motorcycle.

Don’t overthink it, just look for opportunities that give you a competitive edge. This will make it much easier for women to decide on who they want to date and who they don’t. It may even surprise you at just how quickly you can separate yourself from most other guys! Try something new today!

Dating Tip #4: Smile!

You don’t have to be a prince on a white horse to get her attention. A few minutes into your first conversation, look her in the eye and smile. Simple as that! And if you’re worried about looking stupid, don’t: A 2014 study from Northumbria University found that smiling at someone you fancy could make them find you more attractive than someone who is frowning or looks anxious. If nothing else, a smile can lighten your mood.

Couple Looking into Each Others' Eyes and Smiling
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Dating Tip #5: Break the Touch Barrier

It’s normal to want to feel close to your date, but you need to find a balance between being in the moment and making sure you respect her personal space. No matter how into each other you are, try not to lean in too much and invade her bubble—or worse, have your leg or arm touching hers on purpose.

If she doesn’t react well when you break that touch barrier, it will come off as creepy rather than charming. In addition, pay attention to whether she’s talking directly into your eyes or somewhere else on your face (above or below). This can clue you in about how comfortable she is with physical contact. Above all else: listen more than you talk!

Dating Couple Hand Holding
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Dating Tip #6: Ask for A Date

One of our favorite dating tips for men is to go out there and make a move! Guys, you’re not just going to fall into that perfect relationship. Sure, luck is a factor but so is your approach. If you wait around and hope that she’ll come up to you or seek you out, it might be a while before something happens.

Instead, ask her out directly—it doesn’t have to be some huge production either: Hey Lola, I know we don’t really know each other but would you like to grab lunch sometime? I was hoping we could get to know each other better. You might even make it easier on yourself by offering up an activity that both of you like.

Dating Tip #7: Be Confident and Stand Up Straight

There is a reason that successful business people are so often portrayed as leaders. If you want to be taken seriously, look and act like a person who deserves to be in charge. Be confident and stand up straight. This is one of those dating tips for men that women can’t always put their finger on but will surely notice.

There’s a saying fake it until you make it. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not, but do try your best to protect yourself in an assertive, confident manner before others begin to see that as your normal self-expression and attitude. You’ll have better luck meeting women if they feel you have some confidence around them – even if it takes some time before they really get what makes you tick!

Dating Tip #8: Don’t Give Up After One or Two Dates

If you meet a girl and feel a strong connection, don’t give up after one or two dates. One of my biggest regrets in life is breaking up with a girl I had been dating for six months. But that’s how things were done back then, so I went ahead and broke it off. We’ve remained friends to this day, but there’s no doubt we could have ended up as husband and wife if only I’d given it more time.

So, give every girl at least three dates before you decide whether or not she’s worth pursuing further. If you’re feeling chemistry on all three of those outings, go out again—you might even skip the third date altogether. On second thought… wait until at least the fourth date before you jump into bed with her!

Dating Tip #9 Love Yourself First Before Trying To Love Another Person

You need to love yourself before you try to love another person. If you are trying to get someone’s attention, that is one thing but when it comes to actually have a relationship, you have to be secure with yourself first and have your own identity in order. People who need someone else around all of the time are insecure about themselves and are seeking approval from others.

When you do not love yourself, you can come across as being desperate. Instead of relying on another person, put your efforts into loving yourself and everything else will fall into place.

Dating Tip #10 Keep the Conversation Going

When it comes to dating, women love men who are great listeners. Remember that most women value communication as much as sex. Keep your conversations fun and active. Try to involve lots of stories about yourself without sounding boastful or egotistical.

Make sure you listen carefully to what she has to say too! Remember, you are more likely to be asked out on a second date if you give her something interesting to talk about on their first date. Make eye contact, ask questions and use your hands when talking; these are all ways of showing her how much you care about what she has to say! Finally, be playful with flirting but also remain confident and relaxed; remember, sexy is not a place – it’s a state of mind!

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